Mister's Thought of the Day NOV
10
SOMEWHERE OUT THERE IS A PERSON WHO WOULD LOVE YOUR EXACT BRAND OF WEIRD. STOP HIDING FROM THEM. Mister

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Five habits that make you better to love. Swipe →

01

Use Your Words

You're a grown adult in a whole relationship. If you want something, open your mouth and ask for it. Hinting is just hoping with extra steps.

02

Pay Attention On Purpose

Put the phone down and actually look at your person. They know the difference. I promise you.

03

Apologize Like a Grown-Up

"Sorry you feel that way" is not an apology, that's a dodge. Own your part out loud and fix the thing.

04

Want a Yes, Not a Whatever

If it ain't an enthusiastic yes, it's a no wearing a polite face. Enthusiasm or nothing.

05

Grow or Go

You either keep becoming somebody worth loving, or you stay the same and call it their problem.

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